Driving Aunt Clara
Remember when we picked Aunt Clara up
from the mortuary? She was in a lovely, understated
box made to look like burgundy leather.
You were unsure what would be proper etiquette
for the occasion — clearly, they hadn’t covered
Transporting Personal Remains in cotillion class.
Choosing to err on the side of caution, you fixed me
with The Look, by which I understood I should offer
my place of honor in the front passenger seat.
“Aunt Clara ought to sit in front,” I said, and opened
the passenger side door. You nodded and bent
to place the box on the sun-warmed vinyl.
After a moment’s hesitation, you pulled the harness
across and buckled the box in place, checking
to make sure the lap belt was secure but not too tight.
We both went around to the other side and took
our respective seats. You started the car and drove
home, the radio tuned to the easy listening station.
I don’t believe it was polite that neither of us spoke
on the way home, but I’m certain we were both afraid
we would bust out laughing, and that would never do.
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sounds exactly like when my sister and i brought our mom home. Thanks……
A treasure of memory. So much shown about the relationship between narrator and driver and between driver and Aunt Clara — it’s clear she’d fussed about a seat belt too tight. And all that can be inferred about expected behaviors and social class. Good job! (And you just may have inspired a urn poem from me.)
Such a great series of moments. The voice here is completely authentic and takes us there.
You tell this story so well – thanks!
We just make up the rules as we go, I guess.
Love the humor and the caring you both took such pains to both reveal and conceal.
You had my attention from the opening question!