it’s interesting
the conflict
otherwise known as push and pull
what makes someone ecstatic
causes another turmoil     
     hired, fired
     divorced, engaged
     messaged, ghosted
perhaps it’s not always so extreme
but I see, day to day
that which brings one person joy
     often annoys me or a colleague or some random bystander
beauty is in the eyes 
    not all beholders are gardeners

outcomes vary depending on perspective