Liberty from Moms
We don’t want to censor anything,
says the Moms for Liberty spokeswoman.
We just want to keep our kids from reading
books that aren’t age appropriate.
I understand this, but it never would have
worked on me. My mom knew I would read
anything I could get my hands on, and I guess
my dad was squeamish about giving me The Talk,
so when I was nine years old, she left a copy
of Everything You Always Wanted to Know about
Sex but Were Afraid to Ask on the coffee table
in the living room. I read it cover-to-cover,
and it contained a lot that a nine-year-old
wasn’t ready for, a lot that disturbed me.
Girls can lose their hymens climbing trees.
That guy standing in the ER waiting room
probably has a lightbulb lodged in his ass.
The Catholic church put nuns on the pill
in the Belgian Congo for fear of rapacious terrorists.
The earliest dildos, made of clay, were found
in Egyptian tombs. I knew more than everything
I wanted to know, but I didn’t know that
a few blocks away, my best friend,
who would later introduce me to my wife,
was getting raped by his mom. I didn’t learn that
until decades later, after my friend had bouts
of homelessness, addiction, and jail time.
I learned it from his little brother, who had hid
under the bed while it happened, six-years-old.
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I have found poetry to be my own outlet from the child abuse and trauma that I have experienced. This is my first attempt at participating in a forum such as this and it has been healing on a new level. Thank you this resonates with me on many different levels.
I’ve been wanting to write about this stuff for a long time, and I’m now tackling this material concurrent with therapy.
You always mix the light with the dark in ways that make it accessible for a reader. Powerful piece.
Perfect title. Perfect lead in to this life story.
Devastating. But you make it accessible.
That last line. Oh my gosh. I am left wondering, how is this friend of yours today?
I so agree with Shaun–powerful piece.
I regret to say that he died last Tuesday.
Damn, that is tragic. Thank you for sharing this piece, it was an interesting read.
Wow. The disparity between what the spokesperson is focused on (censoring books in libraries/ schools) versus the real danger, which is most often in children’s homes and families… This is very powerful. May your friend rest in peace.
Heartbreaking, powerful and brave witness.
I am sorry to hear that your friend died.