Introvert Overstimulation
profusion of decorations
rooms cluttered
paintings,
photos,
statuary
closed-in dark oppressive interiors
new places have cautious effect
on me
I take-in and process
all details in setting
internally
I react quickly
yet process information
deeply
slowly
if too much sensory input
for me to process
I freeze from overstimulation
I am aware
of being
outside the
given
situation
overstimulation
dreadful experience for an introvert
I withdraw
into myself
feeling
frozen
in place
physically
I am present but not
tuned into my
surroundings
vision blurs
tension spreads
throughout my
body, especially
neck and
shoulders
knotted stomach
rapid breathing
cold to touch
I become emotionally
numb
just want to be
home
such experience can
happen
even in midst of family and friends
I attended social gathering
family friend’s house
Upon arrival
I walked into multitude of modern artwork
drawings
paintings
statues
on walls in the corners of the room even the dining table
and instantly
came to a standstill
assaulted
more sensory detail than I
could handle
physical effects of
over…………stimulation
hit me
felt like I was there but
not there
like proverbial square peg attempting
to fit round hole
I was outside of space
occupied by others
around me
I was overcome……by sense of
shrinking
my inner voice assailed me:
PULL IT TOGETHER THIS INSTANT
ACKNOWLEDGE WHATEVER IS BOTHERING ME
LET IT GO
THEN MOVE ON
despite my best efforts to appear otherwise
others saw my distress
they asked me in worried tones
“Do you feel okay? Is there anything wrong?”
I found every thought
every action
an effort
difficult to concentrate
negative self-talk
I convinced myself
ruining the moment for everyone
told myself I’m a bad person
just not normal
such behavior irrational
perceived I’m always
on outside looking in
narrowed my field of
sight
reduced
onslaught of
visual input
mindful breathing: decreased
my stress level
brought temporary reprieve until
I found refuge in
spacious
well-aired
well-lit surroundings with
minimal sensory stimulation
in solitude I recharge breathe freely just be
in the moment
these actions allow me to inhabit
the space I occupy and
be outside
no
longer
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A thorough depiction. 2 incarnations “freeze” effectively here, a reaction generally overlooked in the “fight or flight thing”. I also appreciate the word “assaulted,” which is quite accurate. A nice progression to comfort at the end.
Thank you, Nettie, for your kind words and perceptive feedback. Every time someone takes time to read my poetry, I am pleasantly surprised. Your helpful comments made my day. With gratitude
I love this! In a way, we wrote about a similar subjects today!
Thank you for your kindness and generosity, Shaun. As I told Nettie, I’m always thrilled when someone takes time to read my writing. Just read your poem, and we do have somewhat similar subjects today.
Larry, I can relate!! This piece is so vivid and wonderfully depicted on a sensorial level. Really appreciate your transparency. Your writing is so inviting Larry, kind, clear, soft. This piece reminds me of an experience I had with my Dad in Las Vegas. We were in one of those IMAX wrap around movie theaters. And my Dad gently asked me if we could leave and he crawled out of the theatre. I realized how thick skinned I was in that experience. Now my skin is quite thin, thank you for your clarity of depicting introversion to clearly! Appreciate your writing Larry!
Thank you, Darlene, for your generosity and perceptive comments. Receiving such feedback is very helpful in the writing journey. Appreciate you taking the time to read and comment on my work, always surprising when someone does. Grateful you could relate and share your family experience. Be well, dear friend