Revival
The 50-year-old divorcée is not a debut performance,
though it may seem so to those who missed the first run.
Really she’s a revival:
the 19-year-old sub-adult
now on the big stage.
She dances barefoot
talks to strangers
calls her whiskey on the rocks
plans life by the season and band tour dates
Who made her believe there was a better version?
And guess what?
The bills still get paid, the kids still get loved, the toilet still gets scrubbed
and the laughing! (“too loud”)
and the dreaming! (“too wild”)
They fill the cavernous silences left when the life-let-go
went.
She wasn’t prepared for the role at 19
for the breath-catching urgency of this fleeting and irresistible life
But now!
Now
she’s singing second chances like song lyrics,
feeling the noise and color like fireworks,
holding tight to nothing but
what she can hold in her own two hands
Improvisation (“Yes! and…”)
is knowing that we never know
what we can be.
6/4/26
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I’m not divorced, but in my 50’s and feel this so much. There is something so freeing about deciding that you finally get to live for you and no longer need to apologize for being true to yourself.
“too loud, too wild”
YES. Not saying divorce is a requirement for this! It was just the portal for me. Such a wild and wonderful thing to get to know ourselves again, isn’t it? 🙂
Divorce is one of the most difficult transitions people can make in life, and those who are in it may feel like it’s never going to end. This poem is so important for showing that life gets better. Thank you for sharing it with us.
A very wise person told me that I should think about the things I loved when I was younger, things I might have lost or let go of, and see if it felt right to bring them back to my life. It was the best advice I got. All the rest of the divorce advice (though well-meaning) is person-dependent. There’s no one way to do it, just remember that you have always been your own person and you will always continue to be! Hang in there.
The glorious beauty of reinvention is powerfully captured here. Kudos.
I love the breath of fresh air this piece brings, thank you!
more power to you–and the rest of us