I will remember his hands,
an Arctic wasteland of the soul.
Behind his forehead,
traumas lurked of beatings 
when brain and body disconnected,
language locked
in abandoned closets of the mind,
the code of reading,
writing, driven out. And more:
no state would claim him,
only the state of grace
we share at this parting.

I spread the holy oil
on his forehead,
on his hands, a plea
that he would find a way home.  
my hands prayer-pressed on head,  
above the eyes that spoke
to ours in more than lost language,
the vocabulary of hope.