Conversation with a Stone
(For JKS 1947 – 2022)
I knock at the stone’s front door.
”It’s only me, let me come in…
…I don’t have much time.
My mortality should touch you.”
Wislawa Szymborska
Stoney
I’m not sitting beside you
But on top of you
in my writing chair
Perched on a flat stone’s turtle back
like a green heron
in the middle of Five Lick Creek
waiting for a crayfish morsel
to reveal itself
A morsel that contains
the oversized claw
of my obsessed mind
I know this stone is You
Not like Jesus’ stale bit of bread
But You
in the molecules
in the tiniest grains
of this limestone promontory
You are the Prime Design
of this singular stone
with its raised fossils
and curious hieroglyphics
I don’t have to read You
hear You, see You, smell You,
taste you, feel You
In this stone You are here
You seep into me
I seep into You;
It’s one of those tricks of space & time
The play of dark & light
The play of how you were true
and ruthless and dependable
I didn’t know You had died
in October of Twenty Twenty-Two
The news came much later
from no person or tree or rock
But from the far off nebula of google
after You hadn’t responded to my calls
I still don’t know how you died
You were fine and strong and full of plans
the last time we talked
Perhaps you didn’t die, maybe google
made it up
It makes no difference
For I have spent this morning with You
doing what we’ve always done
Hanging out by the creek
with your music
and my poetry
Sharing some of our thoughts
keeping others to our selves
Until at the end of the day
A great storm will come out of the west
And this babbling brook will rise up
Into a great torrent
To sweep us away
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So much is good with this.
I will say I did unexpectedly laugh at the Google nebula. But also say that the deep connection is obvious and I love the way your relationship with your friend is not diminished by “space & time ” thanks for posting this one.
Coleman
Thanks for your always kind words
sometimes it’s soooo hard to
go outside and not come home
with a pocket full of rocks 🙂
like coleman said.. so much good here!
unrelated- but the form made me think of eyelashes..
when we blink, when we sleep, when we are excited, when we rest.. on a scale of flutter to still..
This is a very effective elegy. So many moments. I had to laugh at the “oversized claw of my obsessed mind.’ You are on fire. First a sestina, now this!
You pay tribute to a life well lived. That final image will stick with me.
Love the last image of the storm coming in and creek rising. Really describes how it feels to mourn such a loss.
Beautiful work, Jim. At my age, I too know the sadness of realizing friends are gone long after they’ve died. It is what it is.
I relate to the idea that the dead are in an overlapping realm with us, and “hanging” with them in my spirit is often how it goes with me (with some very strange coincidences, often at those times).
I wonder who they are that they became the rock for you.
Loved this tribute and ongoing connection with your friend.
Love this, such a deep expression of grief and friendship. Stones are transitional objects that may assuage our sense of loss. So many great images in this reflection.