He shared how freshman year his unchosen college roommate 
tacked that flag above hi s bed glaring across the dorm room.
He was able to switch roommates and leave that hate filled room.

His story brought tears to my eyes and angst to my heart.
He shared his Hillel bagels and lox brunches with me
He welcomed me to his world for two years.

I saw how hate worked and how resilience won out
Sadly we parted ways at graduation coming from
two different worlds. He could not leave his tribe.