Anniversaries aren’t just for the joys;
Life’s sorrows need remembering too.
Grief demands mile markers – 
“She would have been 13 today.”
“This was the day of his surgery.”
“They would have been married for four years.”
“This was when the accident happened.”
Times to pause and reflect 
On what was lost, 
On who is gone…
On what remains, 
On who is here.