“Damn girl, you sure are BIG”
“Damn girl, you done BLEW UP!”
“What happened to you?  You used to be thick!”

Comments like these, however harmless they may intend or pretend to be, are used as darts to pierce my soul and keep my self-esteem low.  

But, really and truly, I feel sorry for you.  

I’m intelligent, talented, funny and pretty… I thought you KNEW.
and appreciated…
and respected…
my love, friendship and companionship.  

I never knew you were too shallow to see
that my real beauty is not on the outside, but INSIDE of me…what a pity for you.