Secret Affair with Destruction
1.
Nobody in the world knows
that I once put a hole in my wall
after a careless girl cancelled our date
in favor of the the other guy
she’d apparently been talking to the whole time.
Her name is carved into the wall
beneath that hole she made me make,
all hidden from view by a portrait of Jesus,
one day to be repaired
along with all the other damage
this little apartment has endured.
2.
A friend recently had to go to the doctor
with a hand bruised from his own wall.
His mom said of the incident,
Why not punch a pillow next time?
Isn’t that the advice we always received,
to take our rage out on an innocent pillow?
But my problem with pillows is they don’t bite back.
They don’t make noise and they certainly don’t break.
3.
I have discovered
great and euphoric catharsis
in taking an object of molded plastic
or glass
and slamming it
on the tiled floor of my kitchen,
then listening to the rain
of all the fractured pieces
as gravity tries to wrap its mind
around a thing that no longer exists.
4.
A little contrivance,
a disagreement with a friend,
once inspired me
to uppercut a paper towel dispenser
when alone in a public bathroom,
all rage and lust for destruction
squeezed into the strike,
but to my disappointment,
the dispenser remained unscathed.
I did, however,
split a couple of knuckles
drawing out a beauty of blood
I stared at for the rest of the night.
5.
As sores fester and grow
turning even the gentlest touch
into an all out assault,
every abrasion
produces a silent scream
echoing only in my head.
6.
Lord help me.
This is the inside and the outside
coming to a harmony of brokenness
where the people around me
have failed to properly love me.
I am drained of life
by those who take, but never give,
and in that vacuum,
evil stirs
this appetite for destruction,
as if breaking everything around me
will rip the rage from my spirit.
As if surrounding myself with shattered things
will eventually make me feel
a little more whole.
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Not so secret anymore, huh? Philip – these words are so raw and honest and beautiful! Wonderful to read your work again. Love the lines –
This is the inside and the outside
coming to a harmony of brokenness
where the people around me
have failed to properly love me.
It’s wonderful to be writing poetry again. Haven’t done much in the year between. Thank you always for your comments.
Wow! This was visceral! Brilliant.
Thank you so much!
When the people around you fail you, hurting yourself is a way of agreeing with them. Not failing yourself is harder than taking it from others.
I enjoy your writing very much.
That is all so true. Thank you.
I love how edgy this is and how honest. Having it broken into sections is effective. I particularly love the verse about pillows and your ending which somehow brings a little sense of peace.
Yes, a little bit of the speaker’s humanity shows in that last section, a sign that none of this is what he truly wants. Thank you for the comment.
Very interesting poem, Philip. I’m struck, and troubled, by the speaker’s anger-management issues, and especially by the phrases “that hole she made me make” and “a beauty of blood.” You’re getting at something deep and scary here.
Thank you so much for your thoughts, Kevin. I put a lot of thought into those lines because of how they show the irrationality and misplaced associations people in this state will make. It’s a very tough subject indeed.
Every man should “rage, rage against the dying of the light” (Dylan Thomas). Passion is a good thing, perhaps best aimed toward creation, rather than destruction.
It most definitely is. Just takes a journey to get there, sometimes.
Love this poem, Philip! It is intense, vivid, thought-provoking and raw.
Especially love:
“then listening to the rain
of all the fractured pieces
as gravity tries to wrap its mind
around a thing that no longer exists.”
Those lines were crucial to this poem coming out, actually. I was really struggling with other parts of the poem and I was about to sideline it, but when I tried, I couldn’t let go of that section, so I kept at the poem.
Thank you for the comment!
Nice! Well, I’m glad you kept at it. 🙂
I love this. So many great lines. I used my garage as an anger room for about a year and used to smash plates in it. I get that satisfsction and the pain behind it.
It’s so wonderful in a way that shouldn’t be, but in the end it’s just more brokenness. Fortunately, it’s a phase that we can move on from, as it sounds like you have done based on the tense of your comment.
Great poem, Philip! Truly.
Thank you so much, Chris.
Honest and beautiful.
Thank you!