Sometimes Any Decision Is the Best Decision
Yesterday I built shelves with my dad.
We did not bicker or stew in bitter silences.
Upon his second suggestion of different trim
to finish the sides, I said it sounded great.
I held flush the edges. He sighted the nail gun.
There was a day I would have fought over
that half inch, but not yesterday and not tomorrow.
We admired our work at the end of the day.
The kitchen smelled like sweat and sun and wood.
We built the shelves to outlast us both.
Perhaps when the next owner remodels
this kitchen, they’ll pause for a moment
before ripping the shelves off the wall
and notice a thing made with care.
Maybe they’ll feel a tinge of loss when they
toss them into a rented dumpster and replace
them with something they love. Maybe
they’ll keep them like they kept their
grandmother’s cardigan after realizing
such a sweater, while slightly out
of fashion, can’t be bought again.
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“There was a day I would have fought over
that half inch, but not yesterday and not tomorrow.”
So what happened to effect that change?
“and notice a thing made with care.” This line brings it home for me, Kris. It’s all in the making.
This is a well-crafted poem. It’s easy to relate to it – especially for a knitter!
The last stanza is my favorite part of this wonderfully wholesome poem, particularly the idea of a “grandmother’s cardigan” being as irreplaceable as shelves you built with your father. Congratulations on making progress with the kitchen remodel!
Happy to be reading your works again! Always keep the cardigan.
Great sentiment — especially love the last few lines!
I really like the last two stanzas. I love “a thing made with care” and “such a sweater”
I love the memory of the grandma’s cardigan
Great title! Truth in it.
Fav line: There was a day I would have fought over
that half inch, but not yesterday and not tomorrow.