baby wipes. (these have saved me several times)
a lint roller.
a clean pair of panties, a clean pair of socks, an extra pair of shoes, and a sweater in your car.
a catalog of 3-5 embarrassing and/or funny anecdotes for awkward silences on first dates.
a song that you can listen to over and over again and it still reminds you of them, and makes you cry, but in a good way.
a loving touch, platonic or otherwise.
orgasms. many of them. often.
someone that keeps you grounded, even if it means they have to burst your bubble sometimes.
friends who genuinely see your beauty, and remind you of it often.
at least one person who smiles at you every time you see them.